ISHU!!

 Army wife isn't carry a simple life where she wears stars of proud,We are too overwhelmed by packing & unpacking along with unpredictability of life.

After Galwan & during COVID the only mantra I mummbled whole day is 'All is well' and keep praying for wellbeing of all loved ones.By God grace I passed that though time.So I shifted to Missamari without any pre planning.Everything was packed & moved by my caring father in law.Within a week my hubby shifted to high-altitude.He left me alone wid my three and half year daughter there.Unit didn't have their own mess so he have shifted into dump yard area temporarily converted into quarantine area.Away from village near by Airforce cantt.Without any maintenance with long grass,garbage and a very big area only with 5 occupied shelters 

Day by day started facing hurdles.Nobody wasn't helping or coming much due to COVID.

An introvert personality started interacting with immediate neighbor for survival. I were keep looking for that lady whose voice & loud music I were listening from last 2 weeks.

"Ishu"a tall,fat and heavy voice lady met me.I greeted her and found she was junior to me.Her hubby (pilot)was on deputation.One day she catered food for my fussy daughter who used to not eat anything easily.I purchased new stove and retreat her 2-3 days.

The only source of entertainment and life was their talks.We were sharing same roof separated by plastic wall.That made easy to listen everything.I don't have anyone to talk.My cute,calm baby always busy with her craft work and in online schooling.I don't have any household stuff work too so asked for some books, her hubby took from library and passed to me.

Days weren't easy to pass.But I found a beautiful couple & their chemistry. A tall,smart and fair pilot was immensely in love with a just opposite personality.They didn't let buddy in their room that impressed me.

Nights were long for me.In night a loud cry of a lady,she started weeping around 2 am in night and a male in very calm voice console her.Early morning when I used to sleep a voice of polishing shoe irritated me and I mummbled in my head, why don't you get help from buddy? Then he started cutting veggies and cook for his wife.Silently left the room for work after washing car.His gesture let me believe in love again and I wonder everyday really,a male can love a lady or mere play with her emotions?Slowly in my interactions I came to know that Ishu's mom passes recently due to cancer.I could make out she was in severe depression and coping with it.As a pilot he read alot and go for fly.Whenever she had anxiety,she came to me.He was learning flying new helicopter,technologies were complex and new.It was risky.I took care of her during his fly.

As staying alone I never talked to him though they insisted alot.But I were living with them without going at their place.I felt happiness in their love & sad in their sadness. 

They used to cook,sing,play guitar,shopped,drink & watch movies together. And those night mourning of "Ishu". He never got frustrated and always left early in the morning without any complain. He sent a guy for my boundary wall and paid him.Later I insisted and given back it to Ishu.Sometimes he played with my baby too.Later on I came to know Ishu can't conceive and trying for IVF.He played badminton with her,took her for ride to tezpur in midnight cause restriction was there in movment due to COVID.

In her absence he talked to his mom exactly like a baby who was suffering from cancer and his sister's hubby was recently passed away due to COVID. 

Ishu once told me her love story the way they met in Kota coaching,he further pursue for defense from Delhi and Ishu for engineering from jaipur. They had fought a fight of love from their families and have been together that time.Whenever I saw them together,he Silently smile and look at her with a lovely glance like he's falling in love more day by day.A joyous,gentle and genuine human being he seemed to me. 

I feel fortunate to be spectator of a beautiful love story and person who made me believe man can also love and care.He was the essence of a wonderful man who gives unwavering support to his love:

"Also man is the embodiment of unconditional love, a soulmate who weaves a tapestry of devotion with every thread of his being. With eyes that shine like stars on a clear night, he gazes at his beloved, his admiration a gentle breeze that soothes the soul. His love is a sanctuary, a haven where fears are calmed, dreams are nurtured, and the heart is cherished. Through life's ebb and flow, he stands as a rock, unwavering in his support, a constant source of strength and inspiration. In his presence, love blossoms, and the beauty of the human spirit is revealed in all its glory."

Thank you Squardon leader for meeting me and let me believe in love again. 

Admiration,He didn't make fake promises even kept it.He didn't play with her feelings & body even kept her integrity.He never left her alone in her tough period while he was fighting his own.He didn't get frustrated even gave his unconditional support to her.And besides all the difficulties I never found him dull,a very cheerful, joyous & energetic man who spread happiness.

'Ishu' lucky you.Keep this treasure as happy as you can make him.God bless.