“Sandeshe aate hai…” The essence of this song can only be understood by defense personnel. In childhood, when I saw it on TV in the _Rangoli_ serial, it had an aura, but now I can feel it deeply. I only dreamed of becoming a defense officer, and out of nowhere, today I am here.
The pain of leaving home, when you forget all your grudges in a tough period, when you feel blank, you only pray that your life will be given to him alone. A young girl waits for her husband, and when they finally start living together she realizes it’s time for the children’s education, and they part again. The parting of meetings each year and staying alone, managing everything by herself, cannot be understood by a civilian… that empty, lonely life full of responsibility cannot be understood by civilians.
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I always like the song “Hume jab se mohabbat ho gayi h,” which can only be felt by a fauji’s wife—the way she waits for her husband… and it’s enchanting to see couples in the fauj; they are immensely in love and deeply feel it after looking at them. I wish nobody ever faces issues in their love life, because they already have so little time together in their youth, and if you don’t put in effort the spark fades. Yet every club party and dance floor lets me believe in love after seeing old retired couples. I enjoy and am delighted looking at them.
Sometimes I recall teasing my friend in college: “You lucky… getting married to a fauji.” I wish every fauji wife is blessed with a beautiful love life. A fauji is sensible, responsible, good‑hearted, sacrificing, and always chooses his wife. Love isn’t a fairy tale; it’s a rough patch where you must choose your partner after knowing their flaws and weaknesses, and still hold that hand proudly.It become more difficult to maintain in the absence of togetherness and long distance relationship. It’s a beautiful institution where everyone learns from each other; people don’t only earn, they also live and make life better for themselves and others.
May every fauzi wife gets immense love in her life rest everything is keep coming and leaving.May every fauzi love his wife truly. May each soilder live long and happy. Amen!
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