"The Healing Power of Shared Laughter"

Spending quality time with loved ones can be incredibly therapeutic, especially in challenging situations like hospital stays. A mother-daughter conversation about funny childhood memories can bring joy, comfort, and a sense of connection . 

Complimentary snacks prepared by none other than our one more family member cook aunty who has been working from last 24 years . Who's aware of your childhood likings-dislikings.Its just a gesture to show" we are concerned about you".

The terrific night converted into a mesmerizing night because of Punjabiyat of my mom and her anecdotes.The way she cursed her naughty daughter and scolded her alot.Her daughter didn't care about surroundings and lived her life the fullest. Disclosed all the secrets to other aunties .The way took other kids to the corner of house and beat them.When there gurdain came up disappeared from the house.Pluck all the fruits- flowers from gardens of other people.Punctured their cars.Reached wherever good food cooked.Took advantages of good body & build up in games and tear other kids clothes.The kind of temperament that little girl had was big concern of her mom.Inspite of being a girl stayed always in boys group and behaved like Don of Colony. Everyday almost factured her body and damaged cycle.Big fan of television no matter what program is playing on it.Too fussy in the matter of food and clothes.Mom fed up in preparation of delicious food for her.Going on trips and too much extracurricular participations.Going in shorts to village on festive occasions.Why did mom quit coming in PTM to school cause of complaints of teachers.Mom told me with laughter that she used to cry infront of my Bua.The way I took revenge on Diwali by spoiling dresses of other people from crackers.In diwali darshan a round from jeep to city,that little girl used to throw crackers on other people and became a reason of fight in market.Really!!Ghosh..is it all true?How time changed the people.Now mom is relieved and happy cause of my sincereity.

Than I realized Shared laughter and positive reminiscence can:

- Reduce stress and anxiety

- Boost mood and overall well-being

- Strengthen relationships

- Create lasting memories

As we lived in civil servants Colony and our neighborhood was surrounded by District collectors,DSPs ,other ranks.The unwavering confidence of that girl ,she stepped on stage when district collectors safa ceremony was going on asked I also wanna to wear it and they did both of kids his son & that little girl's too.The way she skipped from studies and climbed on the trees present in garden of quater and when buddy uncle climbed on the tree she used to scream I'll jump from the tree if you force me.Forced him to call her chote shaab,asked for water of glass in tray like he served to Pa.It gave me goosebumps thought about the condition of mom.How did she handle me in these kind of situations?and transformed me in such a considerate & sensitive girl. Yes,no doubt power of Punjabiyat they can do anything. 

No doubt Childhood memories, both happy and challenging, shape our identities and relationships. Reflecting on these experiences with loved ones can foster:

- Emotional intimacy

- Empathy and understanding

- Gratitude and appreciation

- Closure and healing

Having lots of other stories too but wanna to know about yours childhood first..eagerly waiting..

Days in hospital!!

 ये जंहा हम हार मान जाते हैं,

या पत्थर-पत्थर को भगवान मानते हैं, जंहा पहचान होती है अपनो की, दुरी से या हो नज़दीकियों से, जंहा शौहरत ऐसो -आराम, उसकी अकद, वो गुरुर, दूसरो को नीचा दिखाना, ख़ुद पे गुरूर, सब ताश के महल की तरह, दह जाता है, यन्हा सभी आते हैं, जो दिल के अच्छा, थोड़े मन के saccha,, मक्कार, या कपटी, जब देखता है asliyat,

नवाते है sir, इक इंसान के आगे, जब क्या ना मिला, की जगह जो है, उसका शुक्रिया मानता है, कोई या नहीं, ये है अस्पताल, जो सबके लिए एक सा है, तो क्यों ना थोड़ा आज में मुस्कुरा ले, जो भी मिले उसे मना ले, एक दूजे को विश्वास दे, हिम्मत तोड़े ना किसी, खुद हिम्मत बन जाये सबकी!

The end of an Era!!

 

           

               Greif is the price to pay for love!!

*The Humble Tycoon

Ratan Tata, the former Chairman of Tata Group, is a name synonymous with success, philanthropy, and humility. Despite being one of India's most influential business leaders, Tata's down-to-earth nature has earned him widespread respect and admiration.

*Leadership and Legacy*

Under Ratan Tata's leadership (1991-2012), Tata Group expanded globally, acquiring iconic brands like Jaguar, Land Rover, and Corus Steel. He transformed the company into a $100 billion conglomerate while maintaining its values and commitment to social responsibility.

*Down-to-Earth Nature*

Tata's humility is evident in:

1. *Simple Office*: His office was modest, with minimal decor and no opulent furnishings.

2. *No Frills*: He flew economy class and carried his own luggage.

3. *Accessible Leader*: Employees could approach him directly, without appointments.

4. *Philanthropy*: Tata donated 65% of his wealth to charitable causes.

*Inspiring Quotes*

1. "I have always felt that business should be done with a sense of purpose."

2. "The wealth we create should benefit society."

3. "Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence."

Ratan Tata's remarkable journey serves as a testament to the power of humility, compassion, and responsible leadership. His legacy continues to inspire generations of entrepreneurs, business leaders, and individuals worldwide.

Shakti and Savrupa!!

*The Divine Feminine: Unveiling Shakti and Savrupa*

In Hindu philosophy, Shakti represents the embodiment of feminine power and energy, while Savrupa signifies the ultimate reality or true form. Together, they form an integral part of the cosmic dance, illuminating the path to spiritual growth and self-realization.

*Shakti: The Divine Feminine*

Shakti, meaning "power" or "energy," is the dynamic and creative force that governs the universe. She is the consort of Lord Shiva, representing the feminine aspect of the divine. Shakti's various forms, such as Durga, Kali, and Lakshmi, symbolize different aspects of feminine power:

- Durga: Strength and protection

- Kali: Transformation and destruction

- Lakshmi: Beauty and prosperity

*Savrupa: The True Form*

Savrupa, or "true form," refers to the ultimate reality that lies beyond human perception. It represents the unchanging, all-pervading essence that underlies the universe. Savrupa is often associated with the concept of Brahman, the absolute reality.

May this combination never deviate from righteous path no matter what she faces.May she become as capable as powerful no masculinity demean her.She understands her surroundings and remains undefeated.May she never look for support inside or outside even she becomes giver. May her shoulders become too strong so that she takes up responsibilities no matter how hard are them.May she always take steps towards growth.May she had innate strength that she never share anything with anyone even let her guide on her own.May this Devi would be her own partner.May in the ocean of emotions where tides keep coming she chooses right one.May not a single emotion can melt her heart in this ruthless world.