Wednesday 26 June 2024

Prinaam!!

I read a quote today and it goes like this"When you don't see the results and wanna give up remember the last thing grow on a tree is fruit."



Duniya prinaam dekhti hai,

Ki kya ker dikhaya h,

Kanha chuk gaye,

Kitna chuk gaye,

Zara se chuk gaye,

Koi maayne nahi rakthe,

Kin halaton,

Kitne sathon me,

Yeh koi ni dekhta,

Dikhta h to ,

Vo aakhri prinaam,

Jeet ya vo haar,

Bas parinaam!!

Tuesday 25 June 2024

Gratitude!

 A early morning thoughts, 

A prayer for all,

A big thank you to God for everything, 

And try to accept the change,

The reality that isn't pleasant,

Plan for today's aim,

And memory of good things with close eyes,

Be strong,

Stay strong,

Things are changed,

They can be changed, 

Anywhere-anytime,

Don't crave for the same,

Accept poiletly and with love,

Whatever God used to be served, 

I'll accept the situation, 

Thank you for everything. 


Monday 24 June 2024

DIGNITY!!

 Dignity


Where thoughts are defiled with Anger, greed, violence and pride; Where mind revolts against the truth And carries the lies as its guide;


Where heart follows words of sinners Where men cease to act as healers; Where actions push lives into woes Where river of wisdom never flows;


Where heart does not care to repent For the deeds unlawfully done; Where from the hearts of people Feelings of love and kinship are gone;


To that world, O God, don't show me the way Help me; as a stone, under your feet let me stay.


Tiku akp


Don't loose your dignity, be mindful and be on righteous path any how.

Saturday 22 June 2024

FOCUS!!

 


Life is mix of spices like a cuisines,combination of boon and bane,the thing drive our needs and direction is our focus.You focus on glass half full or empty. 

So Ebb and flow, ebb and flow, ebb and flow again—honour the cycles and rhythms of nature. Honour what your inner landscape is revealing to you at the moment. Being present with your pain means sitting with it and acknowledging its existence. It means accepting your feelings as they are, without trying to change or suppress them. 

That said, you’re also being reminded that you’re in the midst of a transition at the moment. Not everybody in your orbit will cross that bridge with you. Don't toll your loved one with your personal problems, don't discuss your own story with anyone,peace with the fact that growth will require you to venture into the wilderness alone, and that’s okay.Accept the truth and let them move on!

Simply reminding you of a mantra -Embrace the grind, but make it fashion! Picture yourself as the artisan of your own life, meticulously crafting your masterpiece with dedication and flair. Your attention to detail and commitment to excellence haven't gone unnoticed, so keep polishing those skills—you’re about to shine brighter than ever before! Think of every task as a brushstroke on the grand canvas of your life, whether it's fine-tuning your target or mastering a new skill. If taking the given step enables you to move closer to the big goal, the answer is ‘what are you waiting for?’

Friday 21 June 2024

Let's make a life✍️

 




Let's create happiness surround us and make our dream come true.Let's make the current situation as an opportunity of lifetime to redefine ourselves.Staying with in laws is getting to a positive note, isn’t this an opportunity to do many things which i wanted to do but always said i don’t have time due to indulgence of Army affairs. Suddenly i have ample time to talk to my families and friends, improve the bonds by filling up the cracks that might have come in past, get to know what our next generations likes and dislikes and most importantly self-introspection to assess if we are on right path.

Doing household chores take as a opportunity to weight reduction and providing more hygiene level to our lifestyles.

Doing banking work and shopping and going mall everyday by my own is improving my driving skills too.

Meeting more people each and everyone gives us deep insights the way everyone loves you and giving you ideas about the games people play.

Kids become more flexible and skilled in people speaking.

Best time to do SWOT analysis to become aware of our true strengths and development needs, learn about the opportunities & threats.

I need to have a firm belief that this phase is going to get over soon and there is a next phase of happiness waiting to welcome us. After every gloomy day there is a bright sunshine. Let’s make this a win-win situation, hit two birds with one stone of self-isolation, kill the unknown bad habits and fill our current gaps for a better future.

After all at the end of day the thing matters the most is you.Your's health, success and happiness. Take care of yourself my dear.

Thursday 20 June 2024

"A journey"


 "North-east to South-west"

When frequent traveling is part of your life and love of your life.A beautiful dream to become solo-traveler always is enchanting voice in your heart and slowly, you are heading towards it.

From the very same dream,I got an experience of journey of North to South in a single day.The scene of road traveling in Bengal to Rajasthan. A sky trip of tropical airports with vivid scenarios of rich culture.  




Tuesday 18 June 2024

Chootanaa!!


 Kuch na kuch choot hi jata h,

Kitna bhi sambhal loo,

Ek ko thamu to khuch or choot hi jata h,

Mann sambhalu to Maan,

Or Maan sambhalu to Mann,

Kuch to chut hi jata h,

Yanha sab itna mushkil kyu h?

Ek tees chubti rehti h saankh si dil me,

Sapne sambhalu to apne,

Apne sambhalu to sapne,

Kuch to choot hi jata h,

Aas rakhu to vishwas, 

Or vishwas rakhu to aas,

Kuch to choot hi jata h,

Ab kisko choonu?



Sunday 16 June 2024

PATH AHEAD!!




 Embark on a new journey, 

Warm blood rush to move further,

Roam in ambiguity,

Vision of future with past view,

Mistakes won't repeat, 

Took promise of this league,

Don't be sentimental, 

This world is not worth of your emotions, 

Emotionals are fool of the era,

Hold these inside,

Hold these inside for you only,

Life is too small,

Along a long way,

Be careful,  

And take care of yourself,

We aren't here to take nonsense from anyone, 

Take steps further on right path,

Lift your chin and head,

And stamp your feet in victory!!

Saturday 15 June 2024

WOMAN


 There’s a unique power within every woman, and certain situations allow it to shine brighter than ever.


Life throws us all kinds of curveballs, but there are circumstances where strong women don’t just survive; they thrive.


One thing is for sure – life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. There are times when it feels like the world is working against us, and obstacles seem to be popping up left and right.


Strong women find ways to adapt, overcome, and ultimately thrive in these situations. These are the moments that shape them, define them and make them the powerhouses they are.


We have this innate ability to turn empathy into action. They don’t just feel for others – they stand with them, fight for them, and give them the support they need.


Being underestimated or undervalued isn’t a setback for these women. It’s a catapult. A launching pad that propels them to greater heights.


In my own journey of self-discovery and growth, I’ve found that the moments I’ve felt most fulfilled were when I was confidently standing on my own two feet


It’s raw, it’s scary, and it’s incredibly powerful. When strong women face their fears, they prove to themselves – and to everyone else – just how strong they really are. They don’t just survive these situations – they thrive, and it’s nothing short of inspiring.

Peas in a pod!!


 Don't know,

How strings get attached,

Don't know,

How the smile doesn't stop on faces,

Don't know,

How when conversations aren't going to off,

Don't know,

How does heart feels when they will meet,

Don't know,

How,when you think only he/she understands,

Don't know,

When you wait whole day till evening to share,

Don't know,

How you start liking his/her choices,

Don't know, 

When will we sit touch by backs and listen songs,

Don't know,

When will read same book by lying with each other, 

May be,

Cause of someone realise you first time this feeling, 

That you have read in books/in movies. 



Thursday 13 June 2024

CELEBRATE!!




 Celebrate,

When you achieve alot,

Celebrate, 

When you start working more,

Celebrate, 

When you got lessons and reasons more,

Celebrate,

When new beginnings surrounds over all,

Celebrate, 

When you patiently proven alot,

Celebrate,

When you only have expectations from yourself, 

Celebrate,

When you survived & lived happily,

Celebrate, 

When you come to know your new strengths,

Celebrate, 

When you embrace change,

Celebrate, 

When you keep going on righteous path,

Celebrate, 

Each & every moment, 

Cause, 

Zindgi na mile dubara $&@"'....

Sunday 9 June 2024

Grateful!!

 


To each and every person of my life. Thank you God.

SELF-SABOTAGE


Self-sabotage is a behavior in which you know this activity or process gone to hurt you or hinder your progress.

some people undermine their own good intentions and long-term goals. When people take these destructive steps, their harmful behavior can negatively impact nearly every part of their lives even their own health.

 CAUSE -"Cognitive dissonance"

People showing this behavior struggle with cognitive dissonance, or the mental discomfort you may have holding two conflicting ideas at the same time. Human beings like to have consistency between their beliefs and actions.Or may be going through tough period.

HOW TO 🛑-

Find the root cause,That means we undermined our performances not when we were tired, but when we had peak cognitive resources at our disposal. It, therefore, takes a lot of energy to continue this behavior, and it leads to maladaptive outcomes.


Following healthy routine one day and go 4 steps back by binge eating,sleepless nights and day,inactive mode,stop looking after ourselves and take care of each end everything. 


Has to be stopped. 

Saturday 8 June 2024

STEPPING INTO SPOTLIGHT!!

 MY FIRST RAMP-WALK



The stage was set,the lights were dimmed,and the anticipation was palpable as I took my first step on runway. It was a moment I hadn't dreamed of-the chance to strut my stuff on runway and showcase fashion in creatively.This is the unforgettable journey down the runaway as an Army wife.

The was chic mess area transformed into glamorous fashion heaven for the ladies club.The theme of event was 'Urban Elegance '.

After weeks of preparation, I was thrilled to participate in the show.From fitting to rehearsals,the preparation was intense but exhilarating. I  practiced walk relentlessly, striving for the perfect balance of poise and confidence.

At the final moment,as the pulsating beat of music filled the air,I stepped on the runaway, feeling a rush of adrenaline like never before.The spotlight illuminated my path as I glidded effortlessly,channeling the fierce energy of glamorous world.Each step felt like a dance,a graceful expression of self-assurance and style.

My outfit was Egypt princess inpired stunning ensemble that blended sleek velvet dress with textures.Every detail was meticulously curated to enhance my presence on the runaway. 

Backstage was whirlwind of activity,with ladies and their seniors bustling about in a frenzy of creativity.Amidst the chaos,there was a sense of camaraderie and excitement as we prepared weeks to showcase our hardwork and dedication. 

At last moment commander wife changed the positions and turned me into showstopper.We peformed wonderfully.

Walking on ramp was more than just a fashion-show ,it was a transformative experience that pushed me out of my comfort zone and challenged me to embarce my inner strength and confidence. 

As I took my final bow and the applause echoed through the venue.It was the triumph of confidence and hardwork from a 'Tom-boy' girl to glamorous diva.

Friday 7 June 2024

PATH ENLIGHTENER!!

 


According to the epic poem Mahabharata, Krishna becomes Arjuna's charioteer for the Kurukshetra War, but on the condition that he personally will not raise any weapon. Upon arrival at the battlefield and seeing that the enemies are his family, his grandfather, and his cousins and loved ones, Arjuna is moved and says his heart will not allow him to fight and kill others. He would rather renounce the kingdom and put down his Gandiva (Arjuna's bow). Krishna then advises him about the nature of life, ethics, and morality when one is faced with a war between good and evil, the impermanence of matter, the permanence of the soul and the good, duties and responsibilities, the nature of true peace and bliss and the different types of yoga to reach this state of bliss and inner liberation. This conversation between Krishna and Arjuna is presented as a discourse called the Bhagavad Gita.






Thursday 6 June 2024

GITA

 




Bhagavad Gita is the discourse between Lord Krishna and Arjun before the start of the Mahabharata or Kurukshetra War. It consists of the teaching by Lord Krishna in the form of Shlokas or verses that changed Arjuna’s perspective of life. Although Gita is centuries old, its knowledge and logic are relevant today as well, thus, making it a timeless guide. 


Bhagavad Gita shlokas can help us find the right path and make the right choices in difficult times. They guide us to find inner peace, purpose, and true success in life. 


Understanding the shlokas from Bhagavad Gita gives us deep insights into the whys and hows of daily life. By reading Bhagavad Gita regularly, you can experience some remarkable changes in your life and perspective. You will become calmer, happier, and more content.


I learnt two lessons one whosever did wrong with you just go on righteous path without deviation.We should be right in our own life.And when people give you bad experiences don't show them negativity, be non- reactive,don't complain about these people much to others.Geeta and Arthsastra isn't only ancient even part of management studies in many countries. Those make you more wiser & mature. 

Saturday 1 June 2024

TUM





Main jab bhi tumhare bare me sochti hu,
Betahasa sochti hu, 
Or phir ban jaati hai ek ladi,
Un lamhon ki, yaadon ki, 
Hamari baaton ki, 
Tumhari gairmojudgi me bhi, 
Main tumse baatein karti hu, 
Tum aksar, 
Har waqt mere sang hote ho, 
Tumhe khone se itna darta h dil,
Per usse jyada,
Tumhe gam na dene se darta h dil,
Mujhe tumhe hamesha muskurate dekhna h Tum mere liye kya ho, 
Ab kaise batau,
 Bas tum khud samjh jao.

 


AN ART OF LET GO!!


Learning to let go of things can be valuable for personal growth and emotional well-being.
Instead of worrying about things beyond our control, we should focus on what we have the power to change.Mindfulness allows us to notice at the moment and consciously choose to soften, breathe, and let go.So we shouldn't try to control others and accept the situation as well as reality. Whatever isn't belongs to us we shouldn't wish.In life we don't get so many things as good education, parents, set of people,job, money,fame but how many times we start going to wrong direction or start thinking about stealing/robbery etc.Life is compromise between our feelings and reality. At every stage we need to quiet our feelings and accept the reality. Definitely, it's very painful but as soon we learn & follow it.Damage is less.
When I were going through my book 'Man's search for meaning ' is quoted "Ultimately man shouldn't ask what the meaning of life is,but rather must recognize that it is he who is asked".Really? This thought made me awake....

FLORAL CARPET!!


Early morning when pushed myself to go for walk and felt dizziness due to lack of sleep but dressed up in my tracks,started walking.

A cool breeze gave good morning smile,with a beautiful companion" Nature ".I started walking in lush green area.The gardens are a burst of vivid blooms and a visual treat. The picturesque landscape full of manicured lawns and hedges, British style bungalows of seniors and terraces is breathtaking. 
The gardens are known for many varieties of flowers found here along with marigolds, petunias, lilies and bougainvilleas that dot the paths. By and large, it remained a rejuvenating experience where i got a chance to appreciate and admire nature’s wonders.
Afterwards path were going ahead acrossing 'Boghra Chowk' towards bridge.On bridge the bus stop is my favorite destination. Path leading ahead took me to a beautiful floral carpet spreaded by nature only.Trees were swinging in different-different directions and doing rain of flowers on the earth.The whole morning walk was like heaven is here only.Thanks to mother nature and keeper who look after  it.